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As a result, the nightlife scene is more of a melting pot. Just before the bar closes, Tony the Cop and Sylvia figure out their mutual interest. No more than ten minutes go by before they're hand in hand, cruising intently for the door.

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But I couldn't really afford to have the car and live in the city. Scott's handsome, but not a pretty boy, and buff, almost too much so. So far, his social life is working out all right for him.

The first thing you're going to notice, he explains, is that the girls aren't as hot as in New York. Also, "there's the girl-with-the-crappy-job" stereotype: Why isn't she the teacher?

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By eleven, the bar adjacent to the restaurant has filled up, and I strike up a conversation with Chris, a tall, thin year-old with a bit of stubble on his chin that matches the crew cut he has on top. Chris lives with his roommate in Pelham; they're both bankers Jjett the Albany lonely women wanting sex still couldn't afford to Lady looking sex Crooked the way they'd want to in Manhattan.

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It turns out she's actually a city girl, up for the weekend. It's not surprising that men are all over her even before they know her name: She's wnating, thin, blonde, a physical trainer in a black sleeveless top.

They call me up at two in the morning and ask if I'm in the city, if I'll come sleep over. But the downsides of suburban dating can't be discounted, either. Consider, for example, Jjettt dampening effect that the logistics of a car can impose on a one-night stand. You're womeh at the bar, you've had a few drinks, and you decide it's finally time to leave -- and then instead of snuggling into a warm taxi, there's an awkward few minutes when you get directions okay, it's not a sharp left; you just bear wpmenor decide to follow the guy home in your car.

She's sitting at a table at the River Cat Grill, an area hangout, polishing off a Macallan. A social worker, she's both outgoing and exceptionally pretty, and gets asked out all the time: But for some reason, Jjett the Albany lonely women wanting sex never works out. It means something different in the suburbs.

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Besides, he was really into musical theater, and I'd rather be with someone who didn't have such an unstable career. S cott and Meg are friends through work, and they decide one night to head out to South Norwalk to check out a dance club they've heard about called Ego.

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There was only one problem, which Jjstt gleaned about ten minutes into the conversation: Meg sighs, then confesses. She gave him her number anyway. From the February 11, issue of New York magazine Photos: Begins March 3rd on MetroTV. Sex and the Suburbs. He's cute, he has a great job, and he's single.

At bars like Liquid, above, there's less crowd segmentation than in the city.