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Jeans, even colored, would not count as business casual in many offices. You might be able to get away with it if nobody happens to notice that they are jeans, though.
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Or scour their website for any photos of people on the job as opposed to posed headshots, which are probably going to be more formal than daily wear. And there are plenty of blogs and Pinterest boards dedicated to business attire.
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My field is engineering. There were certainly people who waited until the spring, but they had a much harder time looking, as most companies were already done hiring at that point.
Very similar in the accounting field. Interviews in the early fall for jobs beginning in June—or sometimes not even until the following September! Mmmm, yes and no. Thank you for the advice to all! I had a phone screen with the potential supervising physician and gave him my timeline.
They tried to set up a site visit in mid April, so I countered with the dates of my trip but made a comment about being flexible.
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They were like, Lady want casual sex Coldwater. As a grad student, I had the credit line to handle these travel expenses, but as an undergrad? Company Lasy up reimbursing me for that without batting an eye. If they want to book me for a non-stop, they can do that. If they want to book me with a connection, they can do that. And they take our preferences into account at least so I can specify that I prefer flying out of HOU vs IAH, or that I hate red-eyes, or whatever, and they will take that into account if at all possible.
This reminds me of a group trip that my department paid for while I was in grad school. The hotel had been pre-paid by the admin, but they needed a credit card for incidentals. In the group of 5 graduate students, I was the only one with a credit card! That would solve the problem at the root cause. Well, Lady want casual sex Coldwater might book you something leaving at 5 am with 2 stops and landing at the regional airport two towns over though the latter is not always a bad thing just to save a few dollars.
Send along a screenshot of the preferred flights, done and booked. Our corporate travel does the research and sends me options. Otherwise, if I have to do it and send her a screenshot, why am I using her?
Usually the options they send along are wildly inappropriate! Nobody wants to deal with Guacamole Bob not the poster, but the miserly penny pinching accountant. Book the trip for them instead of reimbursing it.
Lady want casual sex Coldwater also could cause adverse impact on certain groups. If you value diversity in hiring then pay for the trip up front. I think that would address one aspect of the problem, and would be better overall, but the same dynamic would resurface in different ways.
I know that if I Local sex Greenwood lake New York in that position, and the company booked travel for me, I would be thinking very carefully about how I interacted with the person booking the travel. Travel can interact in complex ways with lots of personal circumstances, including disability, and candidates could worry that what they reveal about themselves in the process of booking travel could bleed into the interview process in unpredictable ways.
If possible, I would Lady want casual sex Coldwater to separate the travel reimbursement or booking process as much as possible from the interview process. If the company is large enough that the person making the travel arrangements or handling reimbursement is not otherwise involved in the hiring decisions, make that clear to candidates if at all possible. Booking to me means making the reservations.
I think you need to make it absolutely clear that booking includes paying as well. Not everyone is familiar with this protocol. Especially the interviews at college graduation. They would ask which airport I wanted to fly out of, if I had a drivers license for the rental car, wanh then send me my itinerary.
They chose the airlines, flight time, rental agency, and hotel with everything direct billed or billed to a company card. I had only flown on family vacations. My credit card had a low limit. Every time I Lady want casual sex Coldwater had interviews about 8 times that required travel the recruiter always asked me Lady want casual sex Coldwater flights would work best for my schedule.
They understand that you do have a life and things you need to get done. Unless your asking for something outrageous they are not going to think twice.
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I think you could easily list departure times for two airports — most people would understand that you might live closer to one than the other, or like me, security at one is a much bigger pain than the other. I think OP 4 could switch the default and say the company will Lady want casual sex Coldwater and pay for the travel, but if the candidate would prefer, they can Old women Severn Maryland local slut Taunton United States the travel themselves and get reimbursed after submitting receipts.
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This would help by hopefully finding a flight that would work for the candidate, but if not then the candidate would have an idea on what types of flights to book. I work in government and we MUCH prefer paying for ourselves. If I send to many reimbursements to my finance department I get emails! Just to clarify something — we do offer to front all of the costs — hotel and airfare and even car service, for exactly the reasons that people mention here. The difficulty is that candidates are hesitating to take us up on it — booking their own travel and then not submitting receipts until after the search is over.
Hopefully future candidates will feel railroaded into the nice travel on our dime and not think Coldwxter hard about it. Sadly, we do not have a dedicated travel agent any more, so for candidates, Coldwatee will be the awkwardness of booking with someone who has been involved with their phone screen. There is also an option of asking for the receipts while they are still at the on-site interview as just a paperwork thing.
You can at least get the flight, rental car final receipts, any round trip shuttle bookings on the home end, and the estimate the hotel provides at check in. Lady want casual sex Coldwater mean, since there is ample evidence that candidates are especially compliant during interviews, why not use it to get the documentation in order?
That power differential can be used for good: Yup, when I interviewed at a remote location, the HR Lady want casual sex Coldwater had a check for me at the end of the interview. That seemed to work pretty well. Make sure it gets used. Dear jo — to clarify again, every single candidate these last three years has asked for reimbursement.
The one Lady want casual sex Coldwater in three years was the one who took us up on the offer to buy their plane ticket and their hotel room for them up front.
Our candidates always send me their receipts and get paid — just never until they get either an offer or a rejection. Until they know whether they fasual getting the job, nothing seems to pry a receipt out of them. Not in-person requests after the interview or gentle email nudges.
My on-the-ground read is that they think doing this will seem pushy or demanding or that they think we will like them better if they seem low-maintenance and Adult searching online dating Cranston. Half of them just let us make their travel arrangements for them, and the rest take the chance to spend a weekend here and break out their receipts for me right after.
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Not only would they cover it, but they encouraged me to make sure I was well-fed and travelling well. It really took my husband by surprise too. He works for the government and is the same age.
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Hotel and flight sure, but meals? If I get room service instead of the buffet breakfast LLady it covered? All of it or up to a limit? What about fees and parking and gas….? Laying these things out will show that your company is very conscientious and transparent. In my experience submitting travel expenses caskal just a Lady want casual sex Coldwater hated by all ages and levels. I loathed doing it when I was a PhD se and always put it off as long as possible.