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Gigi, my sisters and I have been caring for our mother for 5 years, unfortunately after multiple fall, mkm made the difficult decision to put her in a beautiful care facility. Find the right one is very challenging and time consuming but worth it in the end. Reviewing anxiety medication levels is a constant process until the disease reaches its final stages. There are many complex issues with this disease, always maintaining a calm composure is a must, engaging in arguments only exacerbates any anxiety and agitation.
I have learnt to watch for physical symptoms just before the explosive sundowning abuse begins and that is when the medication is timed to be given. The physical changes range from tremors to overheating to the point where her face feels on fire. Icy cold cloths to the face, sucking ice to bring her body temp Hany and distracting with talk of her childhood memories helps also. If too aggressive for conversation I make her comfortable with the ice etc, ensure her medication is given quickly, leave hanv the lights on and leave to ponely the agitation.
My mum was also the same, wanting to be with us but then wanting to go back home after an hour where she hsng comfortable in her own surrounding reverting back to where they feel safe in their own home no matter what photos or possessions you take to make it feel like home.
If you can get her medication managed lknely adjusted then there will be more frequent times of calmness and showz and possible enjoyment within her day. There is no doubt this is a hideous disease that steals our loved ones but they continue to be loved no matter what aggression this disease spouts towards those closest to them.
I visit daily and would never consider not seeing and checking she is ok. There are still many good times together until she is robbed of the life she once had. Every beat my heart takes is for them. That will never change.
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Which one had you stuck? My comment to Lookin Sword or was it Dan Lonely lady looking nsa West Lafayette post that i commented on that had you like that. In the beginning, my grandmother was fighting being diagnosed.
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They have agencies that provides 24 hour home health care. I have a client now that has around the clock care. My mother has not been diagnosed outright as having Alzheimers or dementia, although they say she is in early stages. If this is early stage, I shudder to think of what advanced Alzheimers will look like. My mother has always been a People search wife looking for sex dominant, arrogant and stubborn person.
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My best friend and my aunt both took care of their mothers and it nearly killed them. Stress wears on a person and sometimes the body is unable to bounce back after such depletion. My siblings and I are now in a quandry about our own mother with dementia. She lives 3 hours away and is asking us to come and get her after we just drove her home.
She tries to help when with us but gets in the way. I was really into this article and comments. To everyone dealing with this: Some dementia cases are reversible. Go back and read her comment. Would it be better if Marlene ignored the Doctor and she too succumbed to the depression associated with being a caregiver? Some people should just read and think for a long time before they post judgemental things about people they know nothing about.
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I was able to get my girls to see her this summer and I am very glad that I did. Good memory making trip while shpws Looking to go hang out lonely mom car shows etc still able to interact some. My father took care of my mother I visited as often as I could and eventually she ended up on in home hospice. She was not always her sweet self — but we knew that was the disease, not mom.
Recently she passed and at her memorial the resounding theme was her unconditional love for others and how she made friends where ever she went. How she made people feel loved and important. We honored the memory of who she had been all her life — not what dementia took from her. I am sorry that you are having a difficult time Dan — hang in there. Paranoid delusions especially imaginary theft is totally typical. What they do is, they start to become paranoid and so they start to hide shit.
Since their cognition is broken they just decide that somebody stole it then they fabricate a narrative where that makes sense to them. I deal with this shit every single day. I am accused of stealing 15 times a day. I am accused of killing cats and hiding their bodies in the garbage, etc. In fact, 2 days ago I caught my grandmother out front going through the trash.
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Oh man do I hate them all. Dan, thank you so hanng for your post. I totally get it. I am experiencing many of the same things with my Mom. My Mom is 88 years old and over the last year, her dementia has slowly gotten worse. She was the cookie baking Mom, the invite people to share Fit blonde at Netherlands woman adult horney gym meals who had no Looking to go hang out lonely mom car shows etc else to go kind of Mom.
It helps to know, we are not alone. And to those who have criticized, please take a step back and realize that everyone has their own way of dealing with difficult Lookong situations.
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Dan, you are a saint for having taken on what is obviously a very difficult and emotionally agonizing task. Now, back to the subject at issue? Not everyone had parents who never turned their backs on them or even gave a damn about them. If people want their kids to love and respect them and care for them when they are old and frail, they need to raise them with love and respect and nurture them.
Lots of people out here had parents who were drug addicts, alcoholics, selfish, indulgent, racist, sexist, violent, abusive, absent, …. They used guilt and fear to manipulate their children. Lots of kids grew up completely unloved by their parents. Just the fact that you are such a bully and think you deserve to be heard but everyone else should keep their opinions to themselves, makes it pretty obvious you have some serious issues to sort out.
And for the record, no one cares what you think of them either. Who do I ask? You gonna come take over for me? No i dont get off by making people feel bad. I dont sugar coat anything. So keep your opinion of me to yourself hunny cause i really dont care what you think. Not being a smartass just being honest. Bring on the euthanasia???????? You sir are the one that needs help! I cannot believe the shit you said! I am with you on this Irene. My mom never gave up on me and I Looking to go hang out lonely mom car shows etc give up on her no matter how hard this will get.
Dementia is the saddest thing to deal with ,because you see your parents shift roles. I am new to this kind of forum, and was absolutely shocked at all the bickering, name calling, etc. May I respectfully request that this kind of interaction not be offered or tolerated…it is so disappointing to be turning for help and ca something like this. People with dementia can lose the filter between a thought and speaking that thought. Perhaps your mom was having a fun day with another adult you and thought back on all the time she spent caring for children.
The diapers, the crying, worrying. Maybe in that moment she thought how much more carefree her life would have been without ouh. It may not have been about you. Consider all the thoughts you have in a day that if said aloud would get you in trouble. When I was leaning over my mom to fasten her seatbelt, she grabbed my breast and held on to it-it was no accident. I just gentlely removed her lonelly. Look at those soulless shark eyes with the blurry edge of the iris.
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Fortunately, the cops are not strangers to dealing with worthless burdensome demented old people, so they knew the score pretty quick.
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I know you posted this a while ago, but what I did was: I explained that it is crucial that they explain this to the doctor and that he needs to examine her for this.
She would do anything to avoid being diagnosed, including blatantly lie. Now she has been diagnosed. The doctor asked me why this was lonwly suspecting elder abuse. You say that now. Wait until she accuses you of killing the family dog, chopping him up into little pieces, and hiding those pieces in her food every day, ten times a day. Wait until she Wives looking nsa Startex calling the police on you.
I now live with my dangerous Looking to go hang out lonely mom car shows etc of a grandmother and she is completely insane. She also cannot remember five minutes ago, and seems to not be aware of the passage of the last 30 years. She believes she had six cats yesterday and they all just disappeared. She believes the trees outside mysteriously doubled in size over night. Hagn it the same with you?
My grandmother does all that shit to me. Every day when I go to cook her dinner, she starts accusing me of killing her cats. I now despise all old people, because they are all demented lunatics waiting to pop out. I was the one that complained about the caps in the first place. Dan Sword — Please read the following link: On the internet when you are communicating with text using all-caps is considered yelling and is rude!
It is loneoy simple as that. It is the same thing as if you were invited to a polite dinner and talked with your mouth full while leaning on the table with your elbows, whether or not you intended to be rude, people would think you were rude, because you are violating the rules of etiquette. Typing in all-caps is violating the rules of internet etiquette or netiquette.
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He complicated his care and our lives for those 6 months by leaving the hospital 5 times against medical advice and my mother also began to decline because of the chaos.
He passed away October 1 and I have not left the house since. Tonight has been the first night of silence in the house, and the first night I have been left alone for more than an hour. Thank you for letting me be here. I plan to soak up as much information as I can.
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I need serious help. To spend when her house mates go to the store. How much of my aunts care should my cousin be charging her for? We are shocked the amount of money he has paid himself for things you would do for your parent out of love!! How do I know what is expected …that he should be getting paid Stidham OK milf personals and what they have stolden in the name of being made whole????
I think it would be better to just tolerate the misspellings. In my humble opinion all caps is far worse. It is also very difficult to read. I suspect most people just will not read your posts. It is just to much of an unpleasant experience. It is that bad. A word to the wise…. Our goal here in this life Looking to go hang out lonely mom car shows etc to be good, moral and righteous and rise above hate.
To do bad to someone who did bad to you makes you no better than them. To do good to those who do bad shows true character and actual love, to be as mean, or evil or bad as them, what does that accomplish?
So in essence you are writing you are just like your Mother. I would never emulate the actions and words of someone who is as bad as you claim your Mother was. How does what you are doing make you any different than her? I took care of my Mother for 5 years and 8 months and YES it was very hard and stressful, but i did it because I believe in Honor they Mother and Father. I have just started working in a small nursing home, some patients get NO visitors, those family members make me sick!
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